to be accused of improper conduct because, finding you
in that condition, I availed myself of it.

And now, having said so much, I must leave the question to be decided
entirely by yourself. I beg you to understand that I do not at all
wordnetdesire to hold you to a promise merely because the promise has been
given. I readily acknowledge that the opinion of your family should be
considered by you, though I will not admit that I was bound to consult
that opinion before I spoke to you. It may well be that your 
for me or your appreciation of the  with which I may be able
to surround you, will not suffice to reconcile you to such a breach
from your own family as your father, with much repetition, has assured
me will be inevitable. Take a day or two to think of this and turn it
well over in your mind. When I last had the  of speaking to
you, you seemed to think that your parents might raise objections, but
that those objections would give way before an expression of your own
wordnetdesire. I was flattered by your so thinking; but, if I may form any
judgment from your father's manner, I must suppose that you were
mistaken. You will understand that I do not say this as any reproach
to